` THE RALLY `
Friday, February 6, 2009
People say that the mind is a very powerful tool and it can do wonders. The thing is, how do you do it? Love and Understanding someone is really completely different, love is an emotion while understanding someone is from the mind. Now, the mind, Understanding someone is easy, patterns etc tells you things when you analyze. But after analyzing, and understanding a person characteristic, are you able to do anything? lets take a craving for example, a person has a craving, and everyone experience a craving before, some till the extent of going mad for laksa for example, but lets just assume that laksa is poisonous, will you still feed the person who is craving for laksa? or dont feed the person and let the person hate you? opportunity cost-> tells us alot about life and daily decisions. The mind is a powerful tool, so how do you use it to your advantage and not let it control you? Well, i have this problem, i cant control my mind. Ask anyone of age and they usually give u an advice that is meant for someone their age, tell someone who is younger and they won't understand it, and tell someone your age and the reply would be somewhere along the line of "oh well life's like that, what to do?" or "like that lor". Having an untrained mind is really wearing me down. when i worry about something, people say, why worry? or leave everything to god. But there don't seem to be any solutions except "opportunity cost" take one and leave the other. i would gladly like to know how to not worry at all, yes, there is a theory, when things happen, solve one at a time, other theories like, if it is a financial problem, there will be a way out, or when the boat is reaching the river bank, it will park on its own, if there is a problem, then it is not the end, nothing is impossible, but the thing is, how do you rest a worn out mind which battles daily and really really make it worry free? this is something i would really like to find out. When you tell people your problems people gives advices, although there maybe a solution, but while waiting for a problem to be a full blown issue and then put the remedy to it, the days before the problem blows up are the ones that is filled with worry. Who can i talk to? The more people who knows it, it is likely to spread, and for others take it as i am grumbling or nagging at things. But the thing is, how to stop worrying? i find that life depends alot on opportunity cost. seriously, its one or the other. Even if i tell people my worries, there is not much that can be done, well, i am an open person so when people ask, i give a full coverage of my story, but nothing can be done as matters have not yet blown up? the thing is why worry twice, before things blow up and after it blows up, but i still do not know how to not worry. Understanding people is easy, living up to standards is not, but then again, why should i live up to standards? God created us with a mind, in which we can think and decide for ourselves the best solution that fits us, but at times, the best solution offends others unknowingly. Who in this world can understand someone perfectly and "comply" to what ever "standards" another has? i have seen some people whom i consider more or less quite perfect, although it could be just an exterior, but i still haven seen anyone being perfect. Someone once said that your soul mate and you must have more or less a common interest etc etc then it can be considered a soul mate, but i beg to differ, a soul mate is one who covers your arse in times of need and you should do that in return. Well, life is short. although i cant help but worry and think of nonsense, i still believe that one should live life to the fullest. Although sometimes it seems impossible of happening, just carry on dreaming that it will, hope is something that ignites self motivation to carry on towards their goals. Sometimes, i really wish that a day consist of more then 24 hours, while others call it time management, sometimes i wish it has less. Oh well.....
Sometimes, doing things monotonously makes you wonder about alot of things in life, whether will history repeat itself like the monotony of us humans going to the toilet to pee or can things actually change for the better? To my problems and worries, i ran out of solution, i wish a third party can help, but the third party has to be continents away and not know who i am at all. Any 3rd parties? haha, kidding!
brakes applied at |2/06/2009 01:23:00 AM|
